What I love about you is:
How much you love one another.
Sure, my girls aren’t best buds 24/7. They fight and cry and have no problem exercising
their God-given Italian loudness. What gets me is when they are at wits end
with one another and I decide to take Gigi to the store to give them a break and
the first thing out if her mouth in the car is “where is Kat?”. It makes me laugh that a moment ago she
wanted “Kat AWAY!” and now she just looks over at the empty car seat next to
her in sadness. And it’s no different for Katarina. After a half day of school
my mom picked her up for the afternoon.
She kept asking my mom if it was time to see Gigi yet. All of this, of course, warms a mother’s
heart knowing your children want to be together.
I grew up with brothers. Boys. A little different as I’ve
witnessed friends within their families who have sisters. I must admit at first I was a little unsure
of having two daughters because I didn’t think I’d know exactly how to handle
them as sisters. But especially over the
last year as they interact so much more, I don’t think I could imagine my life any
different.
The little things that surprise me are when I realize just
how thoughtful they can be to one another. Gigi saved a cookie under her pillow for Kat
and proudly uncovered it after Kat awoke from her nap. Cookies and other complex carbohydrates are
extremely vital things to Gigi and so seeing her share something so sacred with
Kat brought the biggest smile to my face.
It’s such a basic concept: put others before yourself. Seeing my girls fighting over the same doll
one second and then sharing a pillow and snack and chatting the next also
reminds me how important it is to forgive.
They can argue and disagree but then they “get over it” and suddenly
their love for each other is renewed and life is, well, dandy.
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